A stranger who inspired me.

Why is it so embarrassing to talk to some strangers? I had asked 1000 times this question to myself, being an introvert, I had the privelage to be called book worm, non friendly and even heartless. But if anyone dare to asks me about an introvert  the only comment to post "it's quite comfortable to be silent, sometimes a silent and natural ambience is healing too from a stressed atmosphere"

Personally I believe every introverts wish themselves to be at least energetic as an extrovert. But most extroverts are over talking, even though they make sense, it feels noisy.this is why introversion clashes with extroverts.

The biggest ever problem an introvert  faces is the diminishing of creativity when trying to be as extroverts who are branially 24*7 times active. It is really hard for an introvert to initiate a conversation voluntarily with a stranger.

Introverts are sometimes browbeaten in colleges, allegedly for being not smart, not addressing seniors with reverence because they are less speaking species* and don't like to be in any peer companies and so on.this becomes more hard when talking to girls,which is yet another subject to write about.

Recently there was a chance to meet a familiar stranger, who was a parents representative in my high school days.this was first time after reading about social anxiety and solutions, introducing to him, myself. Though he had been familiar, he didn't actually remembered me, but by God's grace I recalled his name and called him by his own name, I saw the air of proudness he felt when hearing his name from a stranger, proving we all fall in love with our own names first.

He had been a good public speaker, especially in school assemblings and prize ceremonies.we had a long conversation, mostly spoken by him about the past and present of my high school, his words proved me,  more than a parents representative,  he is a good social worker.

Why this conversation had become a memorable moment in my life, honestly I admire anyone or any situation which proves that I am incapable of reproducing it. Simply he outstanded greatly than me, in being not embarrassed to talk to a stranger lots of thing about him and the intentions behind many of his social works.The biggest ever wit, he even didn't asked my name !